Dating is all about three things: location, location, location.And certain cities across the countries are absolute hotbeds for eligible bachelors looking for Mrs. To find out which are the best places to be a single lady in the U.S., we consulted top relationship experts, dating websites and a whole lot of population data.Here's where to be in 20s, 30s and 40s: In Your 20s1. is downright fun, making it an ideal place for women in their 20s to find someone.Boston, Massachusetts "Finding someone smart and interesting is easy in Beantown," says Talia Goldstein, matchmaker and cofounder of the dating site Three Day Young people are always congregating at bars and singing "Sweet Caroline" together at Fenway Park. New York, New York Another fast-paced dating market that favors the young is the city that never sleeps. in most bars and clubs.) According to data from Match.com, singles in New York initiated the most first dates last year of any other city and 52 percent of women did the asking on their most recent first date. According to data culled from dating hub How About We.com, most daters in this city are ditching ho-hum dinners for trips to museums and playful activities like playing Skee-ball or Laser Tag and taking trips to the batting cages."With all of its universities, young people from around the U. If that's not enough, the cold weather makes you want to find someone to cuddle up with."Boston was also named one of the best cities for singles in 2012 by , which gave the city a "well-being" score of 68 percent, meaning that the majority of those living there are both highly emotionally healthy and physically active—a must for ladies looking for love in their 20s.2. According to a recent survey by Match.com, 30 percent of single women in L. said they orgasm between 91-to-100 percent of the time when they have sex. Plus, the probability of a casual fling becoming legit is high in this town: Thirty-one percent of New York singles have had a one-night stand turn into a long-term, committed relationship. While single women do outnumber single men in this political-focused city, you'll have plenty of dating opportunities.
It also hosts a great deal of activity in the 'Web-preneur' sphere, which means San Francisco-level intelligence and success, plus athletic Texas-guy builds," she says. Chicago, Illinois"Chi-town is where love is at in your 30s," says Goldstein.Goldstein adds that, "with the university and the great music scene, people from all walks of life mix and mingle in Austin. "People in Chicago are always out, about and ready to meet new people.And given the all-day dining and drinking culture, you’re bound to hook your love."3. may get a bad rap for those trying to find love, dating in L. Since men in Chicago are also known for their warm Midwest demeanor, meeting a nice guy you want to spend your life with might be easier than you think.Los Angeles, California Hot young things should head west, with bikinis in tow, to take advantage of this city's vast dating scene says Goldstein. After bearing the brutal Chicago winters, guys want to find a lovely girl in their 30s to come home to and keep them warm."Data from shows that singles in the Windy City went on just as many first dates last year as their New York cohorts.Women in their 30s have ample opportunity to connect with guys on all fronts: 20 percent of singles meet their mates online, followed by introductions through friends, social networking and at the office.3.